Student-Athlete Spotlight: 'In Her Shoes'
Throughout the 2009-2010 academic year, the Northeast-10 and
its member institutions will be featuring student-athletes across
the conference in the brand new ‘Student-Athlete
Spotlight’ section on the Northeast-10 website. Our seventh
installment, submitted by Kelley Ruch, Sports Information Intern at
Saint Michael's College, features women's soccer player Teal
Bryan.
By Kelley Ruch, Saint Michael's
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Photos From Teal's Experience in Ghana]
While most student-athletes finished
up their final months of high school—making lasting memories
with friends, planning graduation parties, taking exams and gearing
up for their first year of college—Teal Bryan was in Ghana,
being asked by an 11-year-old orphan if she would adopt him.
“I just remember him [Derrick] pulling me aside and asking
me in his innocent voice if I could adopt him,” Bryan said.
“I was only 18 years old at the time and never imagined being
confronted with a situation like that. It broke my heart to have to
explain to him that I was unable to, however, I was incredibly
touched that he wanted me, out of all people, to bring him back to
America.”
Bryan had only been a volunteer at the Eugemot Orphanage for two
months when this situation occurred. She had cut her senior year
short, graduating early from Greely High School in Cumberland,
Maine in order to volunteer at the orphanage. Through Cross
Cultural Solutions, a New York-based non-profit organization, Bryan
spent 10 weeks in the Volta region of Ghana, teaching classes and
caring for 50 orphans who ranged in age from eight months to 16
years.
Bryan returned to the States in time to prepare for Saint
Michael’s College and her first season with the Purple
Knights soccer team. She proved herself to her teammates and the
coaching staff in no time, having the type of personality that drew
teammates to her, and finishing her rookie season with 15 points
and tied for first on the team with six goals.
“When I returned back to the States, I missed the laid-back
and carefree lifestyle [of Ghana]. I had a hard time with the
reverse cultural shock. A strong part of me wanted to return to the
sublime Ghanaian life and escape the modern world of
materialism.”
Above all, it was the children from the orphanage who she had come
to care for unconditionally that fueled her motivation to return to
the country. After her freshman year of college, Bryan did just
that. She returned to Ghana last summer for seven weeks, although
this time she organized the volunteer mission herself.
“I wanted to stay at the Orphanage to challenge myself and
really become more of a family member to the children. If I had
stayed with friends or at a hotel I would have been privileged with
running hot water and a room to myself. However, staying at the
orphanage challenged me to endure living how most Ghanaians
do.”
The Eugemot Orphanage, where Bryan lived and worked for seven
weeks, housed 50 orphans and was comprised of a boy’s
bedroom, a girl’s bedroom, a common room, small kitchen, and
a bedroom for the house mother. Her meals consisted of vegetables,
and either rice or pasta as her starch and beef or chicken for
protein. Dinner was consistently at 5:30 p.m. each night, after
which Bryan and Derrick would wash the dishes outside in buckets
and tubs as he shared with her tidbits of the Ghanaian culture and
his perspective of life in the orphanage.
During her first trip to Ghana, Bryan taught a fourth grade
class—eight boys and one girl. When she arrived, she was
unaware she would play such a substantial teaching role.
“I had imagined being more of an assistant or
“babysitter” and certainly hadn’t prepared myself
for when the teacher handed the entire class over to me on my first
day. When I returned this summer, their last few months of school
were while I was there and my class from last year begged me to be
their teacher again.”
Living at the orphanage and being with the children all hours of
the day meant more responsibilities for Bryan and less sleep. It
meant she was always around to answer questions or help with
homework, but in turn she received very little privacy and had to
be mentally available all hours of the day.
“Every morning I woke up around 5 a.m. when the kids started
their chores and spent the whole day from 8 a.m. to 2:15 p.m.
teaching in the classroom. When school was out, I usually played on
the park with the kids or took them to the riverside. Sometimes I
would try to nap, but it was impossible with so many children
screaming and running around. By the time late afternoon arrived, I
was completely exhausted, physically and mentally.”
With preseason just weeks away from when she was expected to
return to the States, Bryan understood that there could be no
excuses for not being in shape for the season.
“I knew I couldn’t come into preseason out of shape. I
would have disappointed [head coach Marcel Choquette] and let my
teammates down,” Bryan said. “Motivating myself was by
far the hardest aspect of working out. Running in hot and humid
weather with asthma is difficult in the first place, let alone when
I am exhausted.”
Although she was most worn out at this time of day, Bryan usually
ran in the late afternoon, once the rain had fallen and cooled the
temperature and humidity a few degrees.
“The sky always seemed to have a thin layer of clouds that
magnified the sun and when it would set, it would cast an orange
hue,” Bryan recalls. “The land was flat, primarily made
of low plains. There were a few villages nearby, but one would
never know they were there because they are far in the bushes. I
sometimes felt as though I was running in the rainforest with all
of the palm trees and tropical vegetation.”
Bryan would designate tree trunks along her route to sprint
between, since telephone poles are a rare commodity in that area.
Heads would turn in her direction every time she would run by and
Bryan would soon be joined by excited children who would try to
keep pace with her until they were out of breath.
“Many kids walked miles to school and I would see them
walking home with their book bags. Women would be heading home from
the market with baskets of fruit and vegetables on their heads and
men would be returning from the farm with machetes in their
hands.”
You won’t often meet a 19-year-old who trains for preseason
in an atmosphere such as the one pictured, however it may be just
as uncommon to come across a 19-year-old as altruistic and
benevolent as Bryan.
“In all of my years of being involved in college athletics,
I've never seen a story quite as remarkable as this one,”
said Marcel Choquette, the Purple Knights women’s soccer head
coach. “She is someone who is so selfless and genuinely cares
and wants to make the world a better place.”
Bryan’s unselfishness continued on the field when she
returned to the States. As a starting midfielder, she led the
Purple Knights in assists and finished second on the team in points
for the 2009 season.
“As a player, teammate, and leader, I definitely gained a
lot of confidence through my experience in Ghana. Working as a
teacher helped me develop more leadership skills and
responsibilities. I learned to be more patient and respectful of
the differences among individuals. I also realized that soccer is
not about winning; it is about having fun and enjoying time with
the team. I used to always get upset over losses, but now I try to
look on the positive side: that I was privileged enough to have the
opportunity to play. The children at the orphanage would give
anything to be in my shoes.”


























